Perfect Weekend

I’m not sure a better weekend could have been had here. Seriously. The weather? GLORIOUS. The health? GOOD.

The weather turned into an instant spring on Thursday, when I IM’ed dave to let him know that Family Walk was back on. When Ingrid was just born, we did a walk almost every night when Dave got home, and we’d done a few when there was a warmish winter day, but I have so missed the balmy family walk! Thursday, we just went on our usual route. Friday, we went on the double-long route, that swings through the park, and Ingrid got to swing! She’s been once or twice this spring, but more out of desperation than appropriateness… anyway, it was gorgeous, so, swinging!

Saturday, Dave had to work the canoe race, so I put Ingrid on a blanket outside and raked out the front flowerbed (thinking the whole time that I should lure Amity over so she can at least tell me what I have growing! It’s a shame that this house used to win the grand prize of the Bangor Garden Club or whatever – it was a selling point in the house — and now I’m like "well, if it IS a weed, it’s at least kind of pretty.") Ingrid LOVED being outside — she entertained herself for a while by putting things in her block bucket, dumping them out, and putting themback in… then as I was raking, I heard her laughing, and as I was going along, when the big tree gotbetween she and I, she thought I was playing peekaboo, and thought that was great. Seriously. Raking in the yard, with a baby giggling behind me and the sun beaming down? Wow.

Dave got home in the early afternoon, and his sister dropped in, so that was nice to visit with her for a bit. After she left and another nap (I think) Dave was exhausted, so Ingrid and I headed to Brooks and to the park. There are certain families that I got to know on the stroller brigade last year, not know-know, but worthy of a "hello!’ or "fast asleep, huh?" in passing. There are the twins down the street, who I know are three, as I remember their mom pushing them in a double-bucket stroller past our house that first summer. There are the grandparents who take care of the grandkids, a boy and a girl, and hustle around the neighborhood like racewalkers with Jeep jogging strollers. There’s the working mom who is out after 5, with the blonde little boy… anyway, when Ingrid and I were out, I saw the working mom in the distance, leaving her house with a bucket stroller and the little boy, and her husband, but she didn’t get half a block before they turned around and she lugged the bucket into the house and the dad got the little boy into the regular stroller they used all last year.  Once again, I’m soooo glad I found babywearing before I had Ingrid, and that it worked so well for us…

At Brooks, Ingrid waved to everyone, the pharmacists, the cashier, other customers, and squealed in basic happiness. And! They had Mini Eggs on clearance! I thought I’d totally missed the Mini Eggs in the months of sick, so to get them on clearance = double happiness!  From Brooks, we went to the park, and Ingrid swung for a while, and we walked home.

Last night, I worked on updating my local mom site — this spring, my plan is to do reviews of the playgrounds, and so far I have two done. I updated all of my software, installed a spambot-killing mod on the forums, downloaded a new theme for the blog, and set up a flickr map for the flickr account.

Today, I got up and made Sunday pancakes for breakfast, but mixed up a double batch. The first batch were breakfast pancakes for Dave and I, and into the second I added a bunch of shredded zucchini and cheddar cheese, for Ingrid to take to daycare. She eats pancakes there, that they provide, so I figured it’d be a good vehicle to get a little more nutrition into her, and they should freeze well, I hope.

My parents got here around 10:30, and Ingrid and I went with them to the Home Show, while dave worked on the yard. At the home show, I had one mama ask me about my wrap, and doing the babywearing secret handshake ("I had a ring sling, and didn’t learn about wraps until she was really too heavy…" of course, an hour later I saw her carrying her preschooler, anyway!) and I got info on replacement windows. (Aside — I hate baby buckets, we all know this, but I saw one family with a baby Ingrid’s age/size, EASILY, with their baby in the bucket, clipped into the stroller. HELLO, you don’t NEED to use thebucket with the stroller. That almost irritated me more than the general bucket issue does, because the kid was clearly big enough to be able to handle a stroller, at least.)

After a few hours there, we came back here, and my folks went home. We got a sub from the place down the street, and split it, and then walked to the other park, which we realized is probably the closest one to our house, but because it’s across a very busy street, we never go over there. I got some pictures for the website, and we came home, fed the baby, bathed her, and she went to sleep. I made dinner, which was way too much work and effort and mess for what it was, but whatever. Dave did his laundry, I washed most of the dishes, and watched TAR, and here I am. So not ready for work tomorrow. It’s supposed to be 78! SEVENTY EIGHT! Crazy.

Life is good here — I hope it is there, too.

Edited to say, oh, right! There’s a new April album.

Other stuff

Hey! I got the monthly thing done ON her monthday. That never happens.

ANYWAY. A little blurb about breastfeeding:

Still going strong, here, still pumping, still loving it, no plans to wean.  The longer I nurse, though, the more plugged-in I feel to this secret society of nursing mamas, past and present.  One of Ingrid’s daycare teachers was CLEARLY a big BF’er, but I wonder of a non-nursing mama would pick up on that. It’s little comments — last week, at dropoff, there was A Stink, and she said "oh, it’s not Ingrid, she’s breastfed… that smell must be from a formula baby!" And to Dave, today "Once those big nursing cheeks thin out, she’ll look even MORE like you…" and when I had Ingrid doused in gentian violet for thrush (yeah, I’ve been dealing with itchy nipples, thinking it was from the eczema — remember last year’s cancer scare? — that I couldn’t treat because the ointment for that isn’t safe for nursing babies, and when it got worse with abx, LIGHTBULB! Ingrid’s asymptomatic, and I’m so used to itching… well, everywhere, I was just dealing with it. I may be the first person to ever be EXCITED to have thrush, because it meant I could TREAT it) anyway, the GV didn’t make her flinch at all.  And, there’s a look, I swear, that nursing mamas across the generations exchange.  Of Ingrid’s classmates, (granted, the young toddler room, and Ingrid is almost the youngest, there’s a new one that’s 3 days younger than her…)only 2 of the 12 are getting EBM, and I had totally pegged the other one (coincidentally, the 3days younger one) based on her cheeks. And again, the cheeks thing was pointed out to me by my grad school advisor, when I defended my portfolio with Ingrid in the room, I mentioned her big cheeks (she was 7mos then) and G said "Oh, yeah, those are the big breastmilk cheeks!" Now, I see what she means…

And? I’ve picked up on celebrity nursing habits. Jennifer Garner? Totally doing  the ‘extended nursing’ thing, when you read clips of her interviews at the Celebrity Baby Blog. And Gwen Stefani, whose baby was born around the same time Ingrid was, is still nursing.

I mean, feeding your baby is not a race, or a contest, or whatever. But I am so happy that it’s worked out for us, and it makes me happy when I see others for whom it’s worked out. I’ll be glad to stop pumping, only 42 more sessions, but who’s counting? but I’m in absolutely no rush to wean.

11 months

Dear Ingrid,

You are 11 months old today?!  I’m not sure how that happened so fast, I say it every month, but really, it’s incredible.

You managed to avoid the flu that felled your dad and I, and when daddy was sick with pneumonia, I got to get you up and off to daycare in the morning. It was nice to see how happy you are when you’re dropped off, and how happy your teachers are to see you. 

We also went to the mountain for the first time with you. The last time I was there, you were just about ripe, and we danced to the Violent Femmes in the base lodge. This time, daddy and I both started to get sick, and we never left — but your Grammy bundled you up and took you on a tour of the base village.

You still aren’t crawling, but you’re moving…. you sit on your bottom and use your heels and knees to pivot around, and now you can pinwheel around the floor to get from one place to another. You can also scoot backwards on your belly, but you don’t really like that, because you REALLY want to be moving TOWARDS something, and your movements just end up putting you farther away. But, while learning about that, you also learned how to get yourself up into a sitting position.

In fact, your daycare teachers saw that move yesterday, 4/18, and wrote it on your daily report, along with the time: 2:52 pm, because they were so excited. They couldn’t wait for me to read it, and couldn’t wait to share, and when I read it, I said "oh, yeah, she did that last night." In retrospect, I feel kind of bad. While one of the cons of being a working mama is that I’m likely to miss some firsts, I think that your teachers might be excited to see your firsts, too. They take such good care of you, and genuinely adore you. (In fact, I’ll probably laugh about this one day, but my main concern these days about daycare is that I worry that they love you too MUCH, which is right on par with my worry that you had some dread disease that had Excessive Smiling as a symptom…)

You are feeding yourself, mostly, these days. You love frozen blueberries, and your veggie puffs, and the new one is cheese… when I pull cheese from the fridge, you start kicking your legs and breathing fast, and the cat magically appears next to your highchair. You also like peas, gardenburger, peaches and pears, pancakes, crackers, and yogurt.

Today was the first beautiful spring day of the season. Yes, it was pretty late, but it was worth it. When Daddy came home, we pulled out your stroller (it’d been months since it’d been used!) and we did our standard neighborhood route. You were comfy in your stroller, and we saw a few neighbors. It was just so nice to be smelling the fresh air, spotting a flower blooming in the yard, and walking with you, so much bigger than your first walk, almost a year ago.  And next month, you’ll be ONE. I don’t know how that happened.

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I Love you Ingrid!

Love, Mama

Easy Politics

One of the things that the internet makes easy, is notifying your elected officials of your stand on something.  See, today I’m mighty uncomfortable, since the Supreme Court has decided to camp out in my vagina. That’s not cool.

There is a movement afoot to change this, and the easiest thing you can do is go to this website:

http://prochoiceaction.org/campaign/congress_foca_0407

fill in your info, and click submit. It generates letters to your congress people stating your support of the Freedom of Choice Act.  Please, if you are pro-choice, click that link, send a letter, at the very least. As a woman, and the mother of a future woman, this step against choice by the Supreme Court has me terrified.

Filler

OMG, it’s been a while, involving pneumonia flattening Dave, MID APRIL SNOW, and fun with gentian violet… haven’t even taken many pictures yet. Anyway, bizarrogirl had this, and it seemed like a good way to make sure my typepad account was still working. (also, you don’t *have* to post it in your own journal, if you don’t want…I’m not much of a rules stickler.)

Comment and I’ll:

   1. Tell you why I friended you.
   2. Associate you with something fandom, a song, a colour, a photo, a sexual position, etc. (Or, not)
   3. Tell you something I like about you.
   4. Tell you a memory I have of you.
   5. Associate you with a character/pairing.
   6. Ask something I’ve always wanted to know about you.
   7. Tell you my favorite user pic of yours.
   8. In return, you must post this in your LJ.